I no longer believe that I have a greater purpose beyond a) being happy
and b) making others happy. Item b) isn’t actually my responsibility—it’s the
individual’s—but if I can help to make someone’s day better, I’m game. Ever the
fan of recipes with fewer than five ingredients, and thanks to Dr. Wayne Dyer,
I was recently reminded of the four cardinal virtues as defined by Lao-tzu in
the Tao Te Ching:
Reverence (Respect)
Sincerity (Honesty)
Gentleness (Kindness)
Supportiveness (Service)
I know; that looks like eight, but it’s not. The four virtues are so
called because they originate with our divine natures, therefore it’s more
natural for us to practice them in all their incarnations, i.e., “reverence”
being interpreted as unconditional love and respect for ourselves, for each
other, and for all living beings. You can include the planet in the last
category, as the world and everything in it is made of energy on some
vibrational level and is, therefore, alive.
You’ll note that patience is not listed, despite being hailed by
established religions as one of the nobler virtues.
Well, maybe it’s there after all—filed under “Gentleness”. There may be
four cardinal virtues, but like the four astrological elements, there
are descending (or ascending?) variations of each. Secondary and tertiary
virtues sprung from the original, if you will. Some have been decreed by
religious dogma, but any quality that makes the world a kinder place is fine by
me. The point being that, since the cardinal four actually come with us from
beyond the veil, daily practice of same can and will enrich a person’s life as
well as those whom that person encounters, and it doesn’t matter which god
claims you.
This sounds simple, and it probably is. Humans do have a way of
complicating things. Within the maelstrom that is daily life, simplicity is
hard to come by.
That’s why it’s called “practice”. You may not get it right the first
time. If you do, good luck sustaining it. But as long as you persevere,
practice eventually becomes a way of life. Same goes if you choose to be a
pin-headed rat bastard. Practice anything with regularity and you’ll achieve
it. Even miserable sods have the power to increase their abundance. The
Universe serves everyone.
Or tries to serve. I still get in my own way. I still grip the wheel
with both hands and try to force my will on it. All I have to do is set the
intention and step away from the helm, but can I do that???
Yeeeeaaaaahhhhh—No.
Virgo = Control freak. For someone who has no limitations, I have given
myself limitations.
Four little virtues. Respect, honesty, kindness and service.
Practice, practice, practice.
With love,
This is SO amorian! This whole dang thing, and it put goosebumps all over me.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I think I need to revisit the whole concept of having 'patience'. It used to be my greatest quality. Am I having a mid-life crisis?!
Nope, you're just getting your priorities in order, lol. Besides, there's a difference between being patient and being tolerant. Tolerance is the thing I have less of these days.
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