It seems
counter-intuitive to begin a new year with a hangover, but that’s inevitably
what I do. And when I say “hangover”, I mean of the gluttonous variety. I’m a
cheap drunk, so despite the seasonal increase in consumption, I limit myself to
one boozy libation per day. Treats, however, know no bounds and can do as much
mischief as alcohol once the line is crossed.
Thatʼs why I try to view January 1 as just
another day; a day to recover from the holiday overload and regain some
perspective. A hangover of any ilk will skew the latter, thus adding to the
fervour of making those pesky New Yearʼs
resolutions. Is that when the tradition started, I wonder? Folk feeling like
crap and resolving to be better about feeling better? A man will agree to do
anything if heʼs miserable
enough and wants the misery to end.
I may be aware
of the perils in NY resolutions, but I am not immune. I was reflecting in the
bathroom mirror this morning on what I might resolve to do better in 2014. One
thing came immediately to mind:
Write daily.
Just as
promptly, the panicked mental chatter ensued.
What, write something every day for a
whole year and beyond? I canʼt commit to that. I have a job, a social
life. What if I fail (which I am likely to do, given the scope of the
resolution)?
Inner sigh.
“Write dailyˮ means write today. It does not mean write tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow.
The same
principle applies to anything and everything else. Do it TODAY. And if youʼre unsure you can uphold that resolve for
a full 24 hours (as I am about rebuffing those treats), hold true to the
moment.
Just for today.
For New Yearʼs Day and Valentineʼs Day, for Tuesday, for your birthday,
for Arbour Day and Nirvana Day and All Saintsʼ Day—what day doesnʼt
matter as long as itʼs this one.
This day. This hour.
This moment. Itʼs the one youʼve got. Make it count.
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